“What are the reasons for the decline in the attraction between spouses after a few years of marriage? What can be done to prevent such a decline?”
Initially when buying a new scooter or car there is so much attraction on it.. Carefully wipe and cover to make the day shine like a mirror. After a month or two like this the attraction on it decreases. It also becomes an object like the rest of our life. There is not as much charm as there was in the beginning.
Similarly, the attraction between husband and wife gradually decreases. This is called “Familiarity breeds contempt”. No matter how great we are, if we are well acquainted, we will not find such great cattle in them.
All this is why no one in our country cares about Ravindranath Tagore. Even those next door. It’s a week when you think that something crazy will grow a beard and write poetry. When he received the Nobel Prize, all our Indians lined up to see him.
They need to have ideal feelings in order to not lose their attraction. Get used to the ideal life. With the birth of children in their life, new excitement comes as they thrive day by day. Must be shopping as well. Must go on picnics. Choose good friends and invite them home. Going to their house occasionally should be a way to spend time with them. Excursions should be done on pilgrimages.
Sat association is very important in life. If we want this we have to do yoga pranayama. When we go to some yoga institutes we meet real well-wishers. Their advice is invaluable. Very few people tell us the most valuable things in life. But most of the problems that come in the life of these yoga Institutes say how to easily solve. Those who say so are doing selfless service. Their advice is very helpful. Whenever we go to such yoga institutes, we get a lot of new excitement. It is empiricism.